anonymity revisited

I was thinking about my anonymity post a while back and so went back to read it again. I still have kept from putting specifics in this blog, although I think I have made a few things clearer. The main reason for this, though, is to say something about my girlfriend. I don't really refer to her that way in real life, and in fact I'm uncomfortable with it. I know some people have issues with the 'my' because they infer possession when it's used that way. I don't intend it that way. Some people object to the term 'girlfriend' because so few people use it in the same way; it means so many different things. Or they don't like it because it's not personal. I don't think the first point is that big of a deal, and actually, I am using it to be impersonal. In the real world I don't like it for that very fact, but here I don't want anyone prying around who shouldn't be. All the people who need to know will know already, anyway.